ill-behaved?
Yes. Because history is already littered with the untold stories of women.
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As a grandma with 27 years sober, I’m claiming this title as a lover of good story, and as someone who knows the healing power of a tale well told.
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BLISSFUL THINKING:
A Memoir of Overcoming the Wellness Revolution
Never give up, especially on yourself
Before my heart-wrenching divorce, I thought I knew from wellness. My parents owned a gym, and I’d spent more than a decade in substance abuse recovery.
Then came the gut-punch.
Fearing a return to my substance addiction if I didn’t make a radical departure from life as I knew it. It wouldn’t have been the first time heartbreak sent me down that shame spiral. I turned toward the only answer I knew, one her sobriety mentor had shared — “the answer is always more spirituality.”
But when is more enough?
My search for nirvana took me from university halls in the Persian Gulf to the streets of Manhattan to a sex cult in India.
Desperate for answers, I tested out every spiritual journey imaginable—yoga, silent meditation retreats, gurus — but I kept returning to toxic relationships. Until I discovered I’d been asking the wrong question.
In a memoir that’s both rapturous and page-turning, Kirchner captures the terrors and joys of searching for radical happiness — and a second date.
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who am I?
I’m a story coach, an award-winning screenwriter and author whose life and work as an expat in Asia became the basis of two memoirs, including the just-released, Blissful Thinking and American Lady Creature.
Author, Pushcart nominee, and award-winning screenwriter, my writing has appeared everywhere from the Washington Post to The Rumpus.
I’m also a live, on-air television host for the Home Shopping Network, and run a monthly storytelling show.
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The pic is me at the book launch for Blissful Thinking with my brand new step-grand in my lap.
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BLISSFUL THINKING:
THE book trailer
Blissful Thinking: WHAT READERS ARE SAYING
“Wonderfully humorous and a little dark, Kirchner’s story offers a refreshingly honest take on what wellness even means.”
— Ophira Eisenberg, author, Screw Everyone
“A moving journey, at turns introspective and hilarious, through one woman's quest to find herself. With richly drawn portraits of the people she met along the way, Kirchner's engaging voice made this a pleasure to read.”
— Erin Khar, author, Strung Out
“L.L. Kirchner’s fluid voice and superb control of the narrative are delightful companions on a journey through America, Qatar, India, the mind, and—most importantly—the heart.”
— Eva Hagberg, author, How to be Loved
“Kirchner boldly goes where few dare to in life and literature—and the result is Blissful Thinking, a brave tale of adventure and recovery. I read it in a single sitting, yet found myself thinking about it long after I turned the last page.”
— Camille Pagán, bestselling author of Good for You
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My first memoir
AMERICAN LADY CREATURE:
THE book trailer
More about American Lady Creature here.