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The practice

In this style, it’s essential that you’re able to drop all internal monologue in order to connect with your own innate wisdom. The being you are beyond thought. Connect with that essence for just a moment, at any point in the day, and see how you access greater wisdom when responding to external circumstances.

What I like about this practice is that it’s highly adaptable. This practice can be used in the middle of a difficult situation to call upon spirit guides. This style may be practiced in a group or with others.

Highly adaptable, taking short moments can be very illuminating.

THE TRADITION

I learned this technique at Balanced View in Goa, India. Sure, it’s a cult. But this style of meditation is by far the most illuminating connection I’ve ever experienced. That said, it took me years of meditation to genuinely access my internal compass, that innate wisdom known in meditation circles as the “inner Buddha.”

I TRIED IT

Frankly, this was my game changer.

The same day I learned the technique, I tried it out with a shopkeeper. My flip-flop had torn on a stair step, necessitating an immediate replacement. I found a pair of brown rubber thongs that should’ve cost around eighty-five rupees, but when I took the sandals to the shopkeeper, he smiled broadly and said, “Five hundred rupees.” Bargaining was expected but a ritual I disliked. I didn’t enjoy haggling. What if I asked for open intelligence?

In what barely registered as a beat in the conversation, I dropped all thought and felt for the joyful self within. Without strategizing I simply smiled back and asked, “But what’s your friendliest price?”

Minor though the triumph was, our negotiation went smoothly, and I left with my new rubber thongs at the price I knew they should be. Not only was this practice easier than the drudgery of sitting still for long periods of time, but the effects had been far more tangible.

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